I’m on social media and I see it everywhere. Narcissist, narcissist, narcissist. But unless your spouse or co-parent has been formally evaluated and diagnosed by a certified mental health professional,…
There are two things that set you up for success in divorce mediation: 1) understanding what the process is (and what it isn’t), and 2) having skills to de-escalate conflict…
We’ll see what the judge has to say about that – I’ll see you in divorce court! If you listen to the media, you might get the idea that most…
Your relationship with your divorce attorney is important. You don’t have to be BFF’s, but you should trust that they have your back and your best interests at heart. I’ve…
Can I keep the house? This is often one of the first questions I get from clients and one of the hardest for them to make strategic choices around. So…
First you had the shock of discovery or confession, then perhaps a long battle while he tried “recovery” activities like a 12-step group, seeing a CSAT, or accountability groups at…
Whenever two people communicate, words are important. But in divorce, using the wrong words in the wrong way can be expensive. And in high conflict divorce, communication can cost you…
Your marriage feels like it’s close to the end. You’re thinking about divorce. Maybe you’ve even talked to a lawyer. So, is marriage counseling worth a try at this late…
Upside-down-land. That’s what my friend Renee says it’s like living with emotional abuse. In a world where everything is the opposite of what it should be, you can constantly feel…
You’ve done your work, faced your fears, asked and answered all the hard questions. And as much as it breaks your heart, you know it’s time to end your marriage….