First, the FREE Stuff

Download any one of these free guides to get you started. Whether you’re just beginning to think about divorce, need help speaking up for yourself, or want to learn more about the process, I’ve got a resource for you.

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Ditch Your Divorce Fears Financial Planner

Let’s get your financial house in order – together! Download my step-by-step system so you can analyze your finances even if you failed Algebra and your calculator’s been gathering dust for years.

Tools, worksheets, and lots of instruction and encouragement to help you before, during, or after divorce to get to know your numbers. Get confident about what you need, what to negotiate for, and what to do next.

Worried Your Divorce Will Be a Battle? Help is Here!

Divorce. For many the process is amicable, tensions are temporary, and relationships can remain civil and intact. But for some, it feels more like a personal assault – even an all-out war – and if you aren’t prepared, a sneak attack by the other side can leave you mortally wounded.

Welcome to the world of high-conflict divorce.

You may need this book because your spouse is an addict, an abuser, has anger issues, or suffers from mental illness. You know divorce is going to be brutal. Or maybe you’ve been caught off guard by your spouse’s vindictive and hostile behavior. 

This book offers you coping skills, insight into legal strategies and parenting tips to help protect you and your children emotionally. It gets you ready to enter the arena fully prepared with your eyes wide open so you can navigate your high-conflict divorce like a boss.

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MEDIA: Featured Interviews and Articles

The Importance of Managing Conflict in Divorce

I joined Kate Anthony on her podcast to dissect what it means to have conflict, how (and why) it happens, and what to do when it inevitably shows up in the midst of your divorce. Listen in for some great tips.

How to Find the Divorce Coach You Need to Succeed

Tracy Callahan and I join Susan Guthrie to answer your top questions about what a divorce coach does, how they are trained and how you can find the right one to support you in your divorce.

Taking Your Power Back in Divorce

You can start becoming Toxic Person Proof during your divorce. Sarah and I talk about why it's so important and steps you can take to get through divorce and on to your new life with more power and less toxicity.

Held & Healed Podcast with Heather Elizabeth

Heather and I had a great chat about lots of the financial prep victims can do to get ready to leave abusers. Even if you can't leave today, you can take steps to prepare and protect yourself.

Ditch Your Divorce Fears: Money, Kids and Conflict

Anne and I talk about the three common reasons women are often get stuck taking forward action in divorce: money, kids, and conflict and why preparation for victims of abuse is key.

Preparing for a High Conflict Divorce

Kate Anthony and I talk all about the preparations women need to take before pursuing divorce, including creating an exit strategy, getting your financial house in order, and more.

Hoping for the Best While Preparing for Divorce

Anne and I discuss how empowering it can be for women to simply learn about the divorce process when they are in the post-discovery phase. Whether they stay or go, information is always power.

Has Your Marriage Reached Its Expiration Date?

On this podcast, I join Katherine Miller, founder of the Miller Law Group, to discuss the signs that a marriage is over and offer guidance around what to do if you’re not sure whether to stay or go.

When Good Love Goes Bad: Divorce Hijacks Your Brain

Why is it that folks who seem perfectly sane and composed can all of a sudden act out in uncharacteristic ways during a divorce?

POSARC Interview


Lili Bee and I discuss how crucial it is to be prepared if you're thinking about divorcing a sexually deceptive partner and why these divorces often become high-conflict.

Kids and Divorce: The News is Better Than You Think

Is staying in an empty, unhealthy, or toxic environment better for children than divorce in the long run? Experts say no.

Survive Divorcing An Emotional Abuser


Anne and I continue the conversation to discuss how preparing for divorce will help a woman survive it, especially when she finds herself unable to think clearly or strategically.