Married And Alone: Intimacy Avoidance is a Silent Killer
It’s so common and so heartbreaking. The number of clients that tell me they feel lonely in their marriages. If you feel married and alone, there may be something lurking…
Retirement Accounts in Divorce: Who Gets What?
If finances aren’t your jam and your calculator is lost somewhere in the junk drawer, you might have questions about dividing retirement accounts in divorce. “My spouse has worked at…
How to Help a Friend Thinking About Divorce: Show Up and Listen
It’s hard to know what to do and how to be supportive when you have a friend thinking about divorce. First of all, most people agonize for years before they…
Thinking About Staying With a Cheater? Read This First
What you must know if you’re thinking about staying with a cheater. If you have been cheated on, let me first say how sorry I am. Whether it’s porn, an…
A Coach for Divorce Help? Sounds Sketchy, Right?
I hear it a lot. Just about every time I’m asked what I do for a living. “A divorce coach? You mean people actually pay you for divorce help?.” Then…
Want a Better Divorce? Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer
It’s human nature to want to treat people the way they treat us. But if you want a better divorce, then you may need to take the lead on regulating…
Financial Disclosure Forms: Worth the Effort
As emotional as you’re feeling, divorce is mostly about dividing up your financial life – assets, debt, spousal support and child support. One of the first official things both you…
Is Divorce the Answer When Your Marriage is Miserable?
When marriage is making you miserable, is divorce the answer? “Don’t ask why people keep hurting you. Ask yourself why are you allowing it to happen.” ― Robert Tew As a…
Divorce Coach: Helping Clients Stress Less and Save
Let’s not sugar coat stuff here. Divorce sucks. But, working with a divorce coach can make it suck a little less and even cost a little less. The Holmes-Rahe Stress…
Drinking Divorce Poison Makes a Difficult Situation Toxic
People drinking divorce poison make great reality TV, but in real life it turns a difficult process toxic. We’ve all heard them. The horror stories about couples behaving badly. Whether…