Personal Support When You Need It Most
Stay or Go?
Exit Strategy
Divorce
Pre-Mediation
If only life could be easy, right?
But it never seems to go that way and sometimes sh*t goes really sideways. If you’re living in a miserable marriage, found out your partner cheated or has a porn problem, are going through a divorce or struggling with financial issues … you’re facing big challenges and big decisions.
I work with clients to help them navigate this hard stuff with confidence and clarity. Because I have both personal experience and professional training, I’ll guide and support you to turn this challenge into an opportunity to change your life for the better. New skills, new confidence and a fresh perspective on the future are just a few of the benefits of working with me.
All coaching is personal and custom just for you because your life, your divorce, your finances, and your kids don’t look like anybody else’s. My friend Tracy says divorces are like snowflakes, they may look the same from a distance, but up close they’re all unique.
It's Not a Program, It's Personal Support Just for You
- Recovery from Betrayal or Emotional Abuse
- Understanding the Divorce Process
- Safety and Exit Strategies
- Financial Planning and Analysis
- Parenting Plans
- Boundaries and Negotiation
- Preparing for Mediation Success
Yea, but I heard coaching is expensive.
If you’re like me, I bet you’re wondering how this stuff costs, right? Well, here’s the scoop because I don’t hide or sugarcoat things.
I’m going to ask you for an initial commitment to 6 sessions with me for $775. We can continue past that for as long as you need me.
Why the 6-session commitment? Because we need to dive deep into your unique circumstances and meeting one time won’t get you the results you want. Trust me on this, you want specialized, personal support during one of the toughest times of your life.
Of course, I continue to work with many clients beyond those initial 6 sessions and I offer options for monthly support packages that include a variety of full sessions, check-in calls, and text/email support so you always have access to me.
I believe you’re worth that investment and I believe I can save you enough time, money, and emotional energy that it will be worth far, far more than that.
Keep reading for more about how I work with clients as they face different challenges and hard decisions.
ONE-ON-ONE COACHING SERVICES
Every client is unique, every relationship is different and every divorce has it’s own special challenges. Your life isn’t like anyone else’s. All my coaching services are custom and personal. Because no program or pre-packaged guide will help YOU make the decisions that are right for you.
Stay, Wait or Go: Help for the Hardest Decision
Making the decision to stay or go is agonizing. So many things to consider and if you’re like most of my clients, there’s a lot of second-guessing going on. Most of us worry and wonder for years.
- Is divorce the right answer?
- Is it me?
- Will I have regrets?
- How would I even tell my spouse and kids?
- Will people think I didn’t try hard enough?
- What do I need to know to make this decision?
- Where do I start?
You can make a choice to: STAY strong, WAIT with intention or GO with a plan.
Exit Strategy Planning: Fight Fear, Be Prepared
Thinking about leaving can be frightening – especially if you’ve been a stay-at-home parent or lower earner. Money, kids, conflict – they can all be serious concerns that require planning if you want the best chance for things to go well. Here are just a few of the topics that we can cover:
- All things safety – physical, emotional, financial, communication, storage
- Choosing the right divorce process for you
- Making decisions about where to live, whether to work, and what’s best for your kids
- Analyzing your finances
- Deciding the right time to go
- Planning the conversations with your spouse and kids
- Hiring your dream team
Planning ahead makes divorce better for everyone.
Divorce Coaching: Stay Sane and Save $$
Save time, money and emotional energy by working with a divorce professional who understands the legal, financial and emotional aspects of divorce.
Whether you chose to go or you’ve been blindsided, the whole idea of divorce can be scary and overwhelming for the strongest person. So many questions and often, not many good answers.
- What will divorce mean for me and my family?
- How can I minimize the impact on my children?
- What will divorce mean for me and my family?
- Don’t lawyers cost a fortune? Can I do this myself?
- What’s the difference between divorce, dissolution, and mediation?
- What happens to all our retirement savings and pension plans?
- Who will live where?
- How will I make ends meet?
You Don’t Have To Do Divorce Alone. Find Out How To Make Your Divorce Different.
Pre-Mediation Coaching: Plan for Success
Mediation is becoming the preferred method of negotiating divorce settlements and is mandatory in many states. There’s no need to have anxiety – you absolutely can advocate for yourself (even with a jerk) with the right preparation.
Set yourself up for success by working with me in advance of your mediation to:
- Understand the process
- Know what to expect
- Manage emotional triggers
- Identify priorities and proposals
- Develop proposals
- Negotiate effectively
- Save time and money
- Reach settlement more quickly
Looking for an Alternative to Litigation? Let’s Talk About Mediation.
Thinking We Would Be Great Together?
Not sure yet? Want to chance to ask questions and get to know me? Perfect! Let’s hop on a complimentary consult call and talk about it. Just click below to schedule.