When Good Love Goes Bad
We’ve all heard the horror stories. A quick internet search will yield countless tales of couples behaving badly or fighting to the death over frying pans, china, linens, or a lawnmower. When good love goes bad, smart people can do stupid things and stupid people can go to jail.
I’m going to go out on a limb and assume most of us don’t want to spend our retirement savings on divorce or end up behind bars. That’s why I wrote this article for Elephant Journal to help readers understand how the crazy can get jacked up during divorce and some tricks I’ve learned to help my clients keep their cool.
Read the whole article here: When Good Love Goes Bad
And check out these other posts to keep your cool when everything around you gets crazy:
- Divorce and Your Lizard Brain
- Drinking Divorce Poison Makes a Difficult Situation Toxic
- Life With a High Conflict Personality
Regulating your emotions is key to surviving and getting what you want in any divorce, but especially one where your partner is acting crazy or behaving badly. Working with a coach can help you learn to manage your emotional state so you can stay engaged and make good decisions – decisions that will be best for you in the long run, not just feel better in the short term.
If the crazy is getting to you, I’d love to help. Schedule a complimentary 30-minute consultation and let’s talk. Having the right support might make all the difference in getting the settlement you need so you can have the life you deserve.
Wishing you strength and wisdom,