Married to a Cheater? Lessons from a Divorce Coach
If you find yourself married to a cheater, you know how much betrayal hurts. But so may the idea of giving up on your marriage. Discovering your spouse’s porn habit,…
The #1 Divorce Fear That Keeps Women Stuck
Money. Not enough money. I’ll just go ahead and say it right upfront. The number one divorce fear that keeps women tethered to unhealthy, unhappy relationships is being afraid they…
Why Being a People-Pleasing Doormat Won’t Save Your Relationship
Trying to please your partner will make your relationship better. It seems like solid logic. And if things aren’t going well, then don’t rock the boat, make them unhappy, or…
4 Reasons You Need a Girl Gang When Life Gets Tough
Every woman needs a girl gang. There’s a special synergy that happens when women get together to support each other. And when those women are sharing a pivotal moment or…
3 Questions to Help You Decide If Betrayal a Dealbreaker for You
Infidelity, porn, emotional affairs, addictions, and financial lies – these are the things that crush trust in any marriage or relationship. But is betrayal a dealbreaker? In many, many conversations…
Why Are Hard Decisions So Hard?
A day is made up of hundreds of small decisions. What to wear, buy, eat, watch, or say. Burger or salad? NetFlix or Hulu? Sneakers or sandals? For some people,…
Can Your Relationship Survive Betrayal?
Today’s guest post is from Savannah Esposito, my friend and relationship coach over at The Modern Mr. and Mrs. Just like me, Savannah experienced her own betrayal trauma and has…
Deciding to Stay or Go: Part 2 Waiting
Deciding whether to stay in your marriage or divorce is one of the hardest decisions you will ever make. In Part 1 of this series we covered what it takes…
Deciding to Stay or Go: Part 1 Staying
You’re conflicted. I get it. Deciding to stay or go is a brutal choice. People agonize over it for years. In many ways, the stigma of divorce isn’t what it…
Married And Alone: Intimacy Avoidance is a Silent Killer
It’s so common and so heartbreaking. The number of clients that tell me they feel lonely in their marriages. If you feel married and alone, there may be something lurking…