Married to a Cheater? Lessons from a Divorce Coach
If you find yourself married to a cheater, you know how much betrayal hurts. But so may the idea of giving up on your marriage. Discovering your spouse’s porn habit,…
Why Being a People-Pleasing Doormat Won’t Save Your Relationship
Trying to please your partner will make your relationship better. It seems like solid logic. And if things aren’t going well, then don’t rock the boat, make them unhappy, or…
3 Questions to Help You Decide If Betrayal a Dealbreaker for You
Infidelity, porn, emotional affairs, addictions, and financial lies – these are the things that crush trust in any marriage or relationship. But is betrayal a dealbreaker? In many, many conversations…
But That’s Not Fair! And Other Divorce Realities
But that’s not fair! I know I know. It can definitely feel that way – especially in the middle of your divorce. When your partner has lied, cheated, or is…
Can Your Relationship Survive Betrayal?
Today’s guest post is from Savannah Esposito, my friend and relationship coach over at The Modern Mr. and Mrs. Just like me, Savannah experienced her own betrayal trauma and has…
Married And Alone: Intimacy Avoidance is a Silent Killer
It’s so common and so heartbreaking. The number of clients that tell me they feel lonely in their marriages. If you feel married and alone, there may be something lurking…
Thinking About Staying With a Cheater? Read This First
What you must know if you’re thinking about staying with a cheater. If you have been cheated on, let me first say how sorry I am. Whether it’s porn, an…
Is Divorce the Answer When Your Marriage is Miserable?
When marriage is making you miserable, is divorce the answer? “Don’t ask why people keep hurting you. Ask yourself why are you allowing it to happen.” ― Robert Tew As a…
Drinking Divorce Poison Makes a Difficult Situation Toxic
People drinking divorce poison make great reality TV, but in real life it turns a difficult process toxic. We’ve all heard them. The horror stories about couples behaving badly. Whether…