When Good Love Goes Bad
We’ve all heard the horror stories. A quick internet search will yield countless tales of couples behaving badly or fighting to the death over frying pans, china, linens, or a…
Spousal Support: It’s Complicated
If you’ve been a stay-at-home parent or the lower earner in your marriage, then you may be counting on spousal support (maintenance or alimony) to provide for a portion of…
But That’s Not Fair! And Other Divorce Realities
But that’s not fair! I know I know. It can definitely feel that way – especially in the middle of your divorce. When your partner has lied, cheated, or is…
Mediation: 5 Tips to Be a Better Negotiator
So you’ve decided to use a mediator for your divorce or the court has ordered you to go. No matter which route you took to get to mediation, your goal…
Why Are Hard Decisions So Hard?
A day is made up of hundreds of small decisions. What to wear, buy, eat, watch, or say. Burger or salad? NetFlix or Hulu? Sneakers or sandals? For some people,…
Why Numbers Are Your Best Friends in Divorce
You only get one chance to get this right and understanding your finances is the key. Having accurate financial information and knowing your post-divorce budget will provide you with the…
An Intimate Look Into Life With a High Conflict Personality
Today I have a special post for you today. A personal story written by a friend of mine who is a rock star survivor of marriage to and divorce from…
Budgets, Chocolate Donuts and Cute Shoes
I know. Just hearing the word “budget” can cause some people to break out in a rash. But if you’re facing divorce, knowing the reality of your income and expenses…
Divorce Money Mistakes: Throwing in the Towel
It’s exhausting. Maybe you’re worn down by the conflict, the threats, financial stress, the mounting legal bills or the drawn out court procedures. That’s the time when you’re most vulnerable…
Don’t Forget About These Assets in Divorce Negotiations
Most everyone remembers the house, the 401(k) and the cars when working out their settlement agreement during divorce. But don’t forget about these assets when negotiating. Let’s not leave money…