Why Being a People-Pleasing Doormat Won’t Save Your Relationship
Trying to please your partner will make your relationship better. It seems like solid logic. And if things aren’t going well, then don’t rock the boat, make them unhappy, or…
4 Reasons You Need a Girl Gang When Life Gets Tough
Every woman needs a girl gang. There’s a special synergy that happens when women get together to support each other. And when those women are sharing a pivotal moment or…
3 Questions to Help You Decide If Betrayal a Dealbreaker for You
Infidelity, porn, emotional affairs, addictions, and financial lies – these are the things that crush trust in any marriage or relationship. But is betrayal a dealbreaker? In many, many conversations…
When Good Love Goes Bad
We’ve all heard the horror stories. A quick internet search will yield countless tales of couples behaving badly or fighting to the death over frying pans, china, linens, or a…
Spousal Support: It’s Complicated
If you’ve been a stay-at-home parent or the lower earner in your marriage, then you may be counting on spousal support (maintenance or alimony) to provide for a portion of…
But That’s Not Fair! And Other Divorce Realities
But that’s not fair! I know I know. It can definitely feel that way – especially in the middle of your divorce. When your partner has lied, cheated, or is…
Mediation: 5 Tips to Be a Better Negotiator
So you’ve decided to use a mediator for your divorce or the court has ordered you to go. No matter which route you took to get to mediation, your goal…
Why Are Hard Decisions So Hard?
A day is made up of hundreds of small decisions. What to wear, buy, eat, watch, or say. Burger or salad? NetFlix or Hulu? Sneakers or sandals? For some people,…
Why Numbers Are Your Best Friends in Divorce
You only get one chance to get this right and understanding your finances is the key. Having accurate financial information and knowing your post-divorce budget will provide you with the…
Can Your Relationship Survive Betrayal?
Today’s guest post is from Savannah Esposito, my friend and relationship coach over at The Modern Mr. and Mrs. Just like me, Savannah experienced her own betrayal trauma and has…